Articles

http://www.divorcemag.com/

"Mediation: No-Fight Divorce ---Mediation is a flexible and creative process that encourages finding solutions that both you and your spouse can live with."

Here's a recommended book:
The Good Divorce:
Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart
by Constance Ahrons
Paperback: 320 pages
Publisher: HarperCollins; Reprint edition (June 1995)

Links to other articles:
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/divorce/mediat.html

"You've decided to seek a divorce. Your nerves are frayed; the in-laws are asked pointed questions; the children are beginning to act up in all-too-transparent ways; and your pleasantness is in the midst of an earthshaking landslide. What can you do? Clearly, you can hire legal advice. But who? Here's a checklist of reasons why working with a trained mediator can often help:"

http://www.jlaw.com/Articles/berner.html

"Divorce Mediation: Gentle Alternative to a Bitter Process"